My group and I read the novel Happiness is a Choice You Make by John Leland. Leland interviewed and followed the lives of six elders of diverse backgrounds-- World War 2 veterans, people who identify as the LGBTQIA+ community, person of Asian and African American heritage, and people with broad socioeconomic statuses. Contrary to societal beliefs, elders are enjoying life at an old age. Despite a decline in their physical and cognitive abilities, older people value the close relationships they build. In contrast to younger people who imagine and seek a lover in the future, elders focus on the people they know currently. Many find joy in items or activities that younger people regard as valueless; for example, Ping looked forward to her weekly mahjong games with her apartment mates and John looked forward to his work. Corroborated by studies, elders retain more positive images than younger individuals who tend to store these images for future use. In summary, Leland argues that it is possible to be happy regardless of one's age. Our discussion questions reflected our opinions on "Do not Resuscitate," an option some decided on their loved ones or their loved ones declare upon themselves. To me, "Do not resuscitate" should never be used because all life is valuable. After our class conversation, I realized how important, albeit sad, to talk to one's parents and loved ones on their decisions over the future of their bodies. If death was normalized in our society, people would be less stressed when a death does occur.
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